8 Signs You’re In a Situationship Without Realizing It
Ladies, let’s talk. Not every “relationship” is a relationship. Sometimes, it’s vibes. Sometimes, it’s convenience. Sometimes, it’s two people doing couple things without the couple clarity. And in Nigeria? Ah. Situationships are practically a subculture. You’re cooking in his house every weekend, he has a toothbrush at your place, your friends already call him “our in-law.” But the moment you ask, “So what are we?” he suddenly starts sounding like a politician avoiding a direct question. If you’re unsure whether you’re in something solid or just floating in emotional limbo, here are 8 signs you might be in a situationship without realizing it. 1. You’ve Never Had “The Conversation”: You’ve been together for months, maybe even a year, but there’s been no clear definition. No “Will you be my girlfriend?” No “We are exclusive.” No agreement. Just vibes and assumptions. If the relationship status exists only in your head — or worse, in your group chat — that’s a big red flag. Cla...
