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Divorced and Thriving: How to Break the Stigma Around Second Chances

  Let’s be honest; nobody walks down the aisle thinking they’ll one day be divorced. You plan the wedding, dream of forever, and hope love will always be enough. Unfortunately, it isn’t always so. And when it all falls apart, society often makes it worse. Especially here in Nigeria, where aunties at every family gathering suddenly become relationship counsellors, whispering things like, “What happened?” or “You’ll find someone soon, by God’s grace.” As if your worth expired with your marriage . Now, here’s the truth: divorce isn’t the end of your story. It’s a chapter; a painful one, yes, but also powerful. It can be the beginning of rediscovery, healing, and even thriving. So, let’s talk about breaking the stigma and embracing second chances in love, in life, and in yourself. 1. The Stigma Is Real, But It’s Also Outdated: In our culture, divorce is still whispered about like a scandal. People say “she’s divorced” in hushed tones, as if it’s a crime. Men face judgment too, t...
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Happy Holidays: 10 Unconventional Ways to Celebrate Christmas This Year

 

African family celebrating Christmas

Christmas is a season of joy, love, and tradition, but who says you have to stick to the same routine year after year?

If you’re looking to shake things up and make this holiday unforgettable, here are 10 unconventional ways to celebrate Christmas this year.


1. Host a Reverse Gift Exchange: Instead of exchanging gifts with friends and family, pool your resources to donate to a local charity or community initiative. It’s a meaningful way to spread the holiday spirit.

2. Throw a Cultural Christmas Feast: Explore holiday traditions from around the world. Prepare dishes from different cultures and learn about their customs to make your celebration global.

Family eating together


3. Set Up a Christmas Scavenger Hunt: Hide small gifts, clues, or Christmas-themed items around your home for a fun, interactive experience with loved ones.

4. Go Camping Under the Stars: Trade your living room for a tent and campfire. Celebrate Christmas night surrounded by nature, sharing stories and sipping hot beverages.

5. Organize a DIY Christmas Workshop: Spend the day crafting ornaments, wreaths, or personalized gifts with family and friends. It’s a creative way to bond and make memories.

Father and son doing DIY crafts

6. Create a Time Capsule: Gather items, letters, and memories from this year and seal them in a time capsule to open on a future Christmas. It’s a beautiful way to document your journey.

7. Have a Pyjama Day Marathon: Stay in your comfiest pyjamas and binge-watch non-traditional Christmas movies or a favourite series with plenty of snacks.

Family wearing matching pyjamas

8. Volunteer Together: Spend the day giving back by volunteering at an orphanage, or a community centre for the less privileged. It’s a fulfilling way to embody the true spirit of the season.

9. Celebrate an Eco-Friendly Christmas: Make decorations from recyclable materials, use sustainable gift wrap, and opt for experiences over material gifts to reduce your holiday footprint.

10. Write a Family Christmas Play: Collaboratively create and perform a short holiday play or skit. It’s fun, creative, and brings everyone closer together.

Family play at home


This Christmas, dare to break the mould. Whether it’s through adventure, creativity, or giving back, celebrating in new ways can bring even more joy to the season.

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